Scott Dustin Alfred [July 16, 1980–May 18, 2022]

Scott Dustin Alfred, 41, of Albuquerque, NM, passed away unexpectedly on May 18, 2022.

Scott is predeceased by his mother, Billie Sue Schulte. Left to cherish his memory are his father, Roy Alfred who lives in Cary, NC, sisters Stacey Robinson (Thomas) in SC, Leann Harris in NC, and Kimberly Caspermeyer (Paul) in FL, niece Kayla, and nephew Josh, along with aunts, uncles, cousins, and close friends.

He was an old soul but young at heart. We will always remember Scott for his…love of the great outdoors…passion for bluegrass and banjo music…gift of storytelling and making others laugh…and talent behind the barbershop chair. It was a life taken too soon but one that will leave a lasting impact on all those that loved him and knew him. May God grant him peace and serenity now.

Athletic, adventurous, and rooted in scouts

Scott was always very active, athletic, and adventurous throughout his childhood and adolescent years. He was a part of various sports teams—baseball, football, and soccer. He also enjoyed skateboarding and fishing.

Scouts was a big part of Scott's early years and shaped his life. He truly thrived in the Boy Scouts of America as a member of the Occoneechee Council. Starting and rising through the ranks of Cub Scouts, Boy Scouts, and up to the rank of Life Scout with over 25 merit badges completed—enjoying the outdoors, camping, and learning many life and leadership skills. He served several years on the Camp Durant Summer Camp staff helping fellow scouts learn, develop, and apply their skills.

Scott was honored to be voted and inducted into the Order of The Arrow program of the Boy Scouts represented by Occoneechee Lodge 104. While a lodge member, Scott competed in the Grass Dancing competition at the 1992 National Order of the Arrow conference held at Purdue University. He finished 6th while being one of the youngest competitors.  Scott was also a contingent member of the Occoneechee Council at the 1993 National Jamboree.

Over his short lifetime, Scott traveled to all 50 states, as well as Mexico, the Virgin Islands, and most of the major National Parks. While living out West, he took up snow skiing, horseback riding, hiking, and trail running.

Banjo, bluegrass, and bodybuilding

With age and maturity, Scott moved away from his Lollapalooza music to his true love of country and bluegrass music. He accumulated a collection of over 1200 albums—along with the tedious task of caring for them every time he packed up and moved. Scott loved the music so much that he taught himself how to play both the guitar and the banjo—spending countless hours picking away.

Scott also pursued a strong interest in weightlifting and bodybuilding for several years. He spent numerous hours at the gym along with untold hours with food prep and eating food day and night—trying to consume nine meals a day. At any given time, one might find a can opener, tuna fish, and pre-made protein shakes in his bookbag. He was a big fan of Arnold Schwarzenegger and others while attending several Mr. Olympia competitions. Ultimately, he decided his genes did not support his big ambitions but continued his gym workouts nevertheless.

In pursuit of many careers

Scott gets the perseverance award for pursuing many careers—all very different but all uniquely him.

Scott loved the human body and the mechanics of it. So, he decided to pursue a degree in Applied Sciences in Radiology at Pitt Community College alongside his sister, Stacey, pursuing the same degree. They shared a brother-sister bond like no other—sharing an apartment, juggling jobs to make ends meet, and supporting each other through their college studies. They endured friendly competition about who could get the best grades, which resulted in both of them graduating at the top of their class.

Although Scott enjoyed his work as an X-ray technician at Martin General Hospital, his adventurous spirit led him to escape the dark and busy confines of the hospital and seek the open road. Scott switched gears and went on to truck driving school.

He worked for Prime Trucking Inc. out of Springfield, Mo, driving a refrigerated truck. He drove for several years becoming a very reliable, proficient, and safe driver. He drove several trucks, which you typically drive over 300,000 miles. The last truck given to him by Prime was a teal blue truck with pink paw prints previously used by a lady owner/operator. Definitely not his style! He eventually burned out as an over-the-road driver enduring long days of delays and traffic while spending long stretches of time away from home.

In his travels as a cross-country truck driver, Scott came to love the West and embraced both the Hispanic and Native American foods and cultures. This was the main force for settling in Albuquerque, NM. He turned in his truck keys in exchange for a pair of scissors.Scott was able to save the necessary money to pursue his true passion as a Master Barber completing barber school and opening a very successful barbershop, Barbershop Albuquerque, where he cut hair by appointment only as the sole proprietor. His customers loved his attention to detail and his listening ear.

Celebrating life and saying goodbye

Please keep Scott and his family in your thoughts and prayers. A funeral mass to celebrate Scott's life will be scheduled at a later date at St. Michael's Catholic Church in Cary, NC. We invite you to make a donation to Mental Health America B4Stage4 ; the Occoneechee Council, Boy Scouts of America ; Food For The Poor ; or the charity of your choice.  God Bless You.

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